Working with Graham has helped me to re-gain confidence in my sexual persona – it has been expanding, and sometimes challenging – but in order to grow and change you sometimes need to step outside your comfort zone. However, this has always been with his care and support along the way. He is always very respectful of boundaries, which are constantly checked.
Graham has a broad knowledge of human sexuality, and is able to call on many modalities in how he works. I would have no hesitation in recommending him if you want to work with someone who is professionally trained (or highly qualified if you prefer the phrase), totally non-judgemental and, most importantly, compassionate and supportive. GM (61)
‘My Tantric journey began when I read the words ‘Tantra turns sex into love’ … in an instant it seemed like a light went on and the burdens of a perverse, performance-based sexuality slipped off my shoulders. I had been searching for nearly half a century and now I really had hope of being reconciled with myself as a sexual being.’
‘I learnt how to let go of judgements and the preconditions of my mind and relax into my body and just accept the experience. I had to take off all the masks I wore for life and learn to just be. I realised that my body had wisdom … that I had to listen to it to live more fully. It was really mind-blowing to realise that the body was created to experience pleasure really not pain … and that was actually the healthiest way to live.’
‘I learnt to embrace the sexual in myself, give it freedom and yet choose how to express it. I understood how to generate life energy within myself and how to be generative towards others.’
‘Bringing this knowledge into my relationship with my wife has allowed us to deepen our connection and also to explore some of the subconscious power dynamics and ways to resolve them through contact and massage.’
‘In the past my sexuality, the state of my health and all my relationships were all areas of concern and anguish – fixed and frozen into rigid life-suffocating forms. My sexuality was perverse, my relationships concretized in fear and avoidance, my health trapped in stories of a sickness that could not be cured. In particular, I have come to experience how beautiful my sexual energy actually is – innocent, pure and radiant. For the first time in my life I feel that I have a choice about these fundamental aspects of my life.’
‘I personally value integrity highly and Tantra has helped me to find a deeper, truer integrity within myself. I feel more confident in facing the world and of allowing it to touch me.’